Now, this doesn't apply to all mothers (caretakers) of sons so if the shoe doesn't fit don't squeeze into it.
Yesterday a reader posted that her mother-in-law still runs her (the reader's) husband a bath and lays out his slippers for him...What!!! I had to post this response for all to see...
Bluntly put...mothers, love your sons; don't be IN LOVE with your sons. Raise him, don't date him! What I want to know from mothers who provide so much for their sons is "What happens when he needs that physical intimacy that you can't provide him???" That is why so many men today can have sex with no commitment. All of the attributes and nurturing that men need, require from a woman once they are GROWN men are meant to be motivators for courting, commitment, and then marriage. The Creator designed it so. If you give him all of that he has no reason to stand up and be a man for the woman that he does have physical contact with, the woman who carries his children. That goes against all natural law and we wonder why are families our falling apart. It's very simple. Genesis 2 (amplified) says...
Verse 18-Now the Lord God said, It is not good (sufficient, satisfactory) that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper meet (suitable, adapted, complementary) for him.
Verse 22-And the rib or part of his side which the Lord God had taken from the man He built up and made into a woman, and He brought her to the man.
Verse 24 -Therefore a man shall LEAVE his father and his mother and shall become united and CLEAVE to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
Before God gave man a mother, he gave him a WIFE!! Enough said.
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